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Emily Burnett's avatar

This was a beautiful reflection on a pivotal friendship. I'm sorry she's no longer on earth and for this recent loss of a profound friend. You wrote so beautifully about her and her impact on your life.

Karin McLean's avatar

Thank you, Emily! I really appreciate this!

Julie Cluff's avatar

Karin, I’m so sorry. It’s so painful to lose people we love. Thank you for sharing your memories and your love for Lauren.

Karin McLean's avatar

Thank you for your kind words, Julie! XO

Brandon B's avatar

I love this post. Lauren sounds like an amazing person, and you've definitely honored her life & memory. She's lucky to have had a friend like you.

I'm about 1/2 way through your book and really appreciate what you've written. When you write about certain dates, I try to think about where I was at that time. You write about your friend Robert; I remember Robert, we were both "courtesy clerks" aka baggers at Smiths on Bengal Blvd. One night I was scheduled to work until 9:00 and he was scheduled to work until 10:00. He wanted to get off work early and I agreed to switch with him. Before he left, he came up and gave me a $5.00 bill. We were only making $4.25 / hr back then so that fiver more than doubled my last hour's pay. I tried to reject the money and he said "no-you sacrificed for me, it's yours". I'm not sure why but that memory has always stuck with me.

Karin McLean's avatar

Thank you, Brandon! She really is an amazing person. I'm so happy you've been reading my book and are getting something out of it. I love that you picture what you were doing at the time of the dates throughout my book. Working at Smiths with you guys was the best - those were some great days! I LOVE this experience you had with Rob - how awesome is that? I swear, it's the little moments of kindness that we really remember most. Thank you for sharing that with me! I still talk to Rob every now and then, I'll have to tell him that you still remember that.

Brandon B's avatar

The good ol’ days of bagging groceries! I have very fond memories of working with you guys. Yes-please tell him I said hello and that I said thanks again for the 5er. =)

Karin McLean's avatar

Good ol' days are right! I do too, it was such a great job with great people. I will tell him for sure!

Irene Bozich's avatar

I love your story about Lauren❣️ She came into your life at the right time and place!

Karin McLean's avatar

Thank you! Yes, she definitely did. She was an angel on earth.